CA Parwez shares with us how he fell in love 3 months before his CA Final Exams. He tells us – How True Love Overcomes Every Difficulty.
“I was born in a very poor family. To pursue my Chartered Accountancy (CA) I moved to Ahmedabad. CPT (1st level CA exam) and IPCC (2nd level CA) was easy. I cleared it all in the 1st attempt. Life was good. My articleship went on smoothly as well. Three months before my CA Final exam I fell in love with Sumaiya,” says CA Parwez Shelat from Botad, Gujarat.
CA Final Journey and My Love Life
“I never sacrificed my studies and continued my preparation for CA Final with dedication. As fate could be, I failed my CA Final exam. I anyways had immense financial responsibilities towards my family hence this failure created a lot of pressure. To add to the problems, my parents got to know Sumaiya. Coming from a conservative family, our families did not approve of our relationship. In our community, we are ‘not permitted’ to have love marriages. We were forced to go separate ways. At the same time, my father also told me to fend for myself and manage my own life.
Somehow I got a job and managed my expenses. I continued pursuing CA Final and I kept failing. It was getting very difficult and depressing. The girl I loved was getting blamed for my failure, she was being accused by society for ‘Being Bold’ and falling in love. Due to this she wasn’t even getting any marriage proposals from anyone else.
One day, Gaurav Jain my supervisor at work (Kotak Bank) realized I was going through a rough phase. He was a CA himself. He sat me down, spoke to me and motivated me to keep pushing and pursuing CA. He advised me to leave this job and give 100% to my studies. I am ever grateful to him. His support gave me the strength.
However, leaving my job meant no income. I somehow mustered the courage and requested my dad to help me financially. He obliged and I moved back to my native place. My family accepted me and things got normal. I got busy with studies. Sumaiya and I were out of touch. One day she called me and told me that her parents have agreed about us. I spoke to my dad and miraculously my family agreed as well. We got engaged quickly. In the meanwhile, I gave my exam and cleared only CA Final Group 1 (CA final has 2 groups, Grp 1 and Grp 2).
My family was going through severe financial issues. I had to work now. I moved again to Ahmedabad, India. There were days when I did not even have Rs 40 on me for my dormitory expenses, I used to sleep on the footpath. In spite of all this, I was still HOPEFUL. I gave my Group 2 exams and cleared this time. I became a CA.
Today I am working and doing well, however, there were days where I couldn’t even take Sumaiya out for a coffee as I had no money. But she still stood by me and supported me patiently. I always tell everyone – HAVE HOPE, HAVE FAITH. BE PATIENT,” he concluded.